ira Posted December 15, 2012 Share Posted December 15, 2012 Today...me..my wife Lorie and 2 lawyers met to begin finalizing a formal Separation Agreement.Financially this makes sense for the next coupla years when we'll divorce.Turns out both lawyers lauded us on being on the same page regarding our kids and that we want the best for eachother...Turns out we're both pretty decent people...who may just bring out the worst in eachother...Turns out that I'm not ecstatic this morning and didn't sleep last night 'cause it's easier to demonize and hate the other than to realize that in the end..maybe you were both..."A little bit wrong...and a little bit right". (-N.Diamond)Anyway Here's to... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted December 15, 2012 Share Posted December 15, 2012 Great post Ira. I wish you the best moving ahead.As they say in my parts:Arriba y Adelante!James Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LatetotheParty Posted December 15, 2012 Share Posted December 15, 2012 Ira, I wish you the luck and grace to move through this difficult period in your life. No matter what has happened in the past, it is not easy to "formalize" a disappointment. I am looking ahead to this myself. All the best to you...as you "Start Over.." Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlondeVelvet Posted December 15, 2012 Share Posted December 15, 2012 Best of luck, Ira.....I wish you much happiness! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirk Posted December 16, 2012 Share Posted December 16, 2012 Good luck, Ira, and great song choice. This song speaks to my heart every time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canadianchick Posted December 16, 2012 Share Posted December 16, 2012 Ira..I always wish you nothing but happiness and the best...I think your song choice speaks to alot of people here, but thankfully...we are resiliant and can 'start over'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ira Posted December 17, 2012 Author Share Posted December 17, 2012 Val...here's another good song choice which I dedicate to you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Paulie Mississippi Posted December 19, 2012 Share Posted December 19, 2012 It's a bit of wisdom to cherish... that you're not as bad as she thought and she's not as bad as you thought... remember the old axiom.. "It takes two to tango"... Good luck with your next dance partner. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave from Equinox Posted December 19, 2012 Share Posted December 19, 2012 Good luck, Ira. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ira Posted December 19, 2012 Author Share Posted December 19, 2012 Thanks Dave...Thanks paulie...Dave here is a "Supersized Tangent"...I'm a teacher who is in a different school every week.Last week I was in an elementary school that had alot of special meetings for teachers and the kids had to spend a coupla periods over a few days in the auditorium watching movies...Well I got to see the Disney Channel characters in your avatar..."Phineas And Ferb"...I enjoyed them so much...I ordered their "Second Dimension" movie for my grandson Ben.I always say...Everything IS a learning experience...Again...Thank you my friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Kiwi Connection Posted December 19, 2012 Share Posted December 19, 2012 Ira, my friend, while I'm saddened to hear about you and Lori, I know it's not an easy decision to make and I wish you both all the best for whatever the future holds.Who knows it may even be a trip to New Zealand!! Love and hugs.Kiwi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ira Posted December 19, 2012 Author Share Posted December 19, 2012 Muzza', Kiwi...I have NO Doubt that one day I WILL visit you guys "In (your part of) The World Down Under". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy-Ann Posted December 20, 2012 Share Posted December 20, 2012 You don't have to hate the one you once married...but sometimes, you just can't stay with them forever. And it's ok. Best of luck to you, Ira! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ira Posted December 20, 2012 Author Share Posted December 20, 2012 and...Wendy IS the reason why "I Wish They ALL Could Be California Girls"... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reid C. Posted December 21, 2012 Share Posted December 21, 2012 Been there a couple of times myself, Ira. It is never easy, but at least it seems that you two are moving on with respect for each other. I was lucky in that way also. Brighter times ahead, good buddy.I don't know how many times I played that song during those hard times. It really helped. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ira Posted December 22, 2012 Author Share Posted December 22, 2012 Hey...Thanks Reid and everybody....I hope it's not sacriligious to Eric...but I sorta like Lennon's "Starting Over" too!Merry Christmas everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plainjane Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 Great minds think alike! I was just watching this very same video, and thought of postng it here. Nice one Ira!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raspberrybelle Posted December 23, 2012 Share Posted December 23, 2012 You're a gem, Ira.Belle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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