Guest Rachan Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Belle, You weren't mean. You played devils advocate & asked an honest question. Having been thru it yourself,I see no problem with that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LobsterLvr Posted September 25, 2011 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 No worries, Belle.I just didn't want you to think I'm some kind of heartless deadbeat dad.I'm just a veeecktum of soycomestances (as Curly used to say). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollies65 Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 That's why this site has a PM feature.Making false assumptions is not cool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachan Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 No ....that's why she's entitled to speak as freely as you do....You sure as hell don't hold back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollies65 Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Making false assumptions is not cool. Especially when it's someone you don't know. You you have a concern, send a pm. That last sentence amounted to a personal attack...even though Dave is being cool about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachan Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 I believe she started with "I would hope".....or something along that line....Which is assuming & accusing nothing. This is a very sensitive subject that most people would immediately apply to their own experience..Human nature. Dave himself said "No worries" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockynrobyn1977 Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Can someone tell me why if you are a working woman, that you can get alimony? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachan Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 My mom din't & she was married 28 years!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockynrobyn1977 Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 My mom did not get it either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raspberrybelle Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 No worries, Belle.I just didn't want you to think I'm some kind of heartless deadbeat dad.I'm just a veeecktum of soycomestances (as Curly used to say). Nyuk, Nyuk, Nyuk.Belle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raspberrybelle Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Belle, Do you have first hand knowledge that Lobster's Ex is a fulltime Mom and does not work? I hope so. I never said she didn't work but maybe you aren't aware that even at work one is a full time mom or dad, especially if one has custudy.I've always been so impressed with how sensitive you are about other's feelings and how carefully you choose your words so as not to offend. Perhaps I can learn something from your sterling example. LOL Can we put this all behind us now? Really?Belle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollies65 Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Don't try and pin this on me, you're the one that spouted off about Dave, without knowing what you were talking about. I just called you on it. Next time send a pm.PS, you're not the only person who been through a divorce...don't lecture me on points of parenting...please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachan Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 She didn't "spout off"She voiced a concern because of what she had experienced....& she never once questioned your parenting skills. Everyone is just sensitive about this & rightfully so.... Dave seems to have a great sense of fun & sense of humor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelina Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Dave seems to have a great sense of fun & sense of humor seriously though, per my earlier post in this thread........did my "uncontrollable itch voodoo doll" work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raspberrybelle Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Don't try and pin this on me, you're the one that spouted off about Dave, without knowing what you were talking about. I just called you on it. Next time send a pm.PS, you're not the only person who been through a divorce...don't lecture me on points of parenting...please. Okay. I'm through teasing the bull. I'm done with this. Belle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachan Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 I must say....That's a doozie of a payback Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raspberrybelle Posted September 25, 2011 Report Share Posted September 25, 2011 Ok, one last shot.AngelinaDid you give Dave the Hollies doll by mistake? He seems so irritable.Belle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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angelina Posted September 26, 2011 Report Share Posted September 26, 2011 when it comes to uncontrollable itch..............I bow out..............my lips are sealed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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LobsterLvr Posted September 26, 2011 Author Report Share Posted September 26, 2011 You all must be getting old.Not one of you commented on my Hawaiian Lesbian Wedding Adventure!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rachan Posted September 26, 2011 Report Share Posted September 26, 2011 I was envious!!!!!Hawaii is WONDERFUL!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockynrobyn1977 Posted September 26, 2011 Report Share Posted September 26, 2011 Do you have photos of the Brides? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelina Posted September 26, 2011 Report Share Posted September 26, 2011 You all must be getting old.Not one of you commented on my Hawaiian Lesbian Wedding Adventure!! did everyone get a lei? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darlene Posted September 26, 2011 Report Share Posted September 26, 2011 Hey, Dave. I'm sorry for all the problems you went through, but what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. And so you are. Tracy has it exactly right: If your ex is bitter, then her life is her punishment. And she will be miserable no matter what.You showed that you can literally make lemonade out of the lemons life (or your ex-wife) hurls at you and sweeten up your own life with the love you share.As the Beatles sang, "in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." And you showed that the best things in life WILL come our way if we don't let the problems weigh us down.Congratulations on your new job offer! Everything happens for a reason. And like your misery before you met your beautiful new wife, the problems are only a preface to real happiness.You've proved twice now that however dark it may seem, good things are just around the corner.ENJOY!!! Living well is indeed the best revenge.--Love, Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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