ira Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 I actually do know that relationships are complicated. But what are INYHOs some of the "deal breakers"...the things that make you doubt or even walk away from a relationship.For me...It's if I begin to think there's "nobody home"...I don't covet the communication...or trust the communication...and I enjoy bein' with friends or by myself far more than with my significant other....that's a "deal breaker". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Cartmill Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 If it turns out she has a penis...Well, then I just want to be friends.Good thing that's one of the first questions I ask on a first date! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fresh Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 If she wants to run a credit check on you after the 3rd date, move on to new ground! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 A female point of view here...If he wants to get into your pants on the first date Run ladies run....there has to be at least 2 dates Just kidding....I can remember a date when I was 19...the guy didn't even ask me what I wanted to do..he assumed we were going to "jump in the hay".....I told him where to go and how to get there...never saw him again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GMan Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 She has "man hands"! 'nuff said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fresh Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 Moustaches, beards, tattoos, body piercing(on women)...yeccch! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollies65 Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 Beards on women. LOL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollies65 Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 LOL! If you came of age in the 70s, and John will back me up here, One nighters were standard operating procedure. 76 to about 83 or...The Golden age! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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S_O_L Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 men who shave their chests..or legs or whatever it is they shave these days im my day, a hairy chest signified a "real man"..dont likepierced ears on a man or tattoos..might look cute when you'reyoung, but ridiculous on someone in their 80's Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darlene Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 If he is only available or wants to date or come over on certain nights, I would begin investigating. Also, if he sizes up your digs and seems very impressed, then talks about moving in after a few dates, I would "move on."Of course, when he says he has a top secret job with the CIA, you can pretty much count on the fact that he is a complete nut and cross him off your list.--D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missm Posted June 15, 2011 Report Share Posted June 15, 2011 If his cologne proceeds him...leave him alone! There might be hygene issues there.When he smiles, if his mouth looks like a Jack-O-Lantern...leave him alone...If his attire is not clean nor pressed...let him be!!!All of those things aside, a keeper is one who has a personality that compliments yours, that knows how to conduct himself as a "man", who is respectful of you and your feelings...he is a keeper!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ira Posted June 16, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 Fun AND serious responses..."Who Could Ask For Anything More"...and of course Tony C's response was EC.Com Hall Of Fame worthy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Cartmill Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 She has to "get" my sense of humor, without a delayed reaction, and/or a series of confused expressions before she laughs...I guess my wife was good at faking that when we were dating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelina Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 LOL! If you came of age in the 70s, and John will back me up here, One nighters were standard operating procedure. 76 to about 83 or...The Golden age! For me Steve it was '77 thru '84.....glad to have made it unscathed. This was the height of the sexual revolution/women's movement/NYC club/ cocaine scene. Those were absolutely CRAZY days. nudge nudge...say no more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelina Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 when on a first date she speaks of her last relationship and why it failed ad nauseum....one can almost feel one's erection start to write a suicide note! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ira Posted June 16, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 f she says..."Who the hell were the Raspberries"?..or if she prefers Celine's version of "ABM"...I'm hurryin' home to catch "Family Guy" reruns at 11:00. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy-Ann Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 If he isn't itelligent and can't go one on one with me in a debate. THAT bores me!Oh, and if he doesn't get that when I say a man should be in total control and be THE man and he doesn't do it. DEAL BREAKER! Take a hint! He's a wuss...I don't connect with wusses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy-Ann Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 when on a first date she speaks of her last relationship and why it failed ad nauseum....one can almost feel one's erection start to write a suicide note! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Cartmill Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 How does one be in "total control" with someone as, as, as...well, someone like Wendy?Can't be done!That's like trying to be totally in control of your musicianship confidence, while jammin' with The Raspberries... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bessieboo Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 If a guy lacks integrity on little things he will lack it on the big things as well.Dirty or bad teeth Drugs or heavy drinkingCheapThese are deal breakers for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy-Ann Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 A female point of view here...If he wants to get into your pants on the first date Run ladies run....there has to be at least 2 dates Haha---if I had lived by that I would have been dateless. LOLHowever, that gave me a chance to weed the men from the boys. Men always come back because they are smarter than boys! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paulie Mississippi Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 She has to "get" my sense of humor, without a delayed reaction, and/or a series of confused expressions before she laughs...I guess my wife was good at faking that when we were dating. Hmmm... what else does she have a history of faking? Yes... sometimes it just has to be said... and I'm the one who just has to say it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockynrobyn1977 Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 Hey guys, the beard & moustashe thing could be hormonal! Tweezerman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy-Ann Posted June 16, 2011 Report Share Posted June 16, 2011 Hmmm... what else does she have a history of faking? Yes... sometimes it just has to be said... and I'm the one who just has to say it... Me too. Isn't it FUN?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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