Kim, Thanks so much for such a well-articulated, heartfelt post! Isn't it nice to have a little place to come to where such caring, intelligent people gather...especially when the stressors of everyday life seem to overwhelm us sometimes? I know I don't post everyday, but rarely a day passes when I don't check in to see what's new in Eric Carmen Land! It's such a comfort to enjoy the friendship and camaraderie with other great people here who also share a true love for the music of Eric Carmen . Kim, the very first time I saw your screen name, BlondeVelvet , it caught my eye (wonder why ?). Then, after reading your first few posts, I knew I was going to like you, and that you'd fit right in here. You know, we all come to the table here from different walks of life to share each of our individual talents and contributions, resulting in a delightful mix of salty, savory, sour, and sweet elements...Finally ending in one deliciously unique family experience! Key word here being FAMILY. Welcome to the family, Kim!